Hissing is defensive, not aggressive, says Wilde. “It’s an expression of fear, stress or discomfort of a threatened cat communicating ‘stay away,'” she says.
If cats are fighting, the cat that’s hissing is the more vulnerable one, says Wilde.
If your cat approaches you with a straight, almost
vibrating tail
, this means that she is extremely happy to see you.
Kneading
— which some people refer to as “making biscuits” — is a sign of contentment and happiness. Cats knead their mothers when they are nursing to stimulate the let-down of milk.
When dogs wag their tails, they may be expressing happiness. But this isn’t the case for cats! When your cat
wags her tail
, it’s her way of warning you that you are getting on her last nerve.
Whiskers are also
good indicators of a cat’s mood
. When a cat is scared, he put his whiskers back. But when a cat is in hunting mode, he puts his whiskers forward.
Your
cat drapes its tail
over another cat, your dog, or you as a symbol of friendship.